As
I hope most of you remembered, last Sunday was Mother’s Day in America. In
Paraguay, Mother’s Day is a national holiday that occurs every May 15th.
For some reason Paraguay is the only country in the entire world that
celebrates it on that date. I have absolutely no idea why Mother’s Day
celebrations here on that day, but if I had to guess I would say that it is
because Independence Day is May 14th and in order to extend the
holiday they make May 15th, Mother’s Day, a national holiday as
well. Traditions here are not what they are like in America, in fact I cannot
even get anyone to explain what makes the day different than any other day
other than stores are mostly closed to give moms a day of rest. I have been
living in Paraguay for a little over seven months now breaking my previous
record of longest time spent away from home by three months. I live by myself,
hand wash my laundry, cook, clean, and try to maintain some level of order in a
place where so many things are tricky to get accustomed to. In many ways it is
a trial by fire to learn how, on the most basic levels, to take care of myself.
That got me thinking about how I miss my own mom who isn’t here to help.
Mom and Me |
Not
having mom around might sound corny for a lot of people, but I have to say that
I miss her terribly. I have absolutely no doubt in my mind that it was her
upbringing and emphasis on broadening my horizons starting at a very young age
that gave me the confidence not only to join the Peace Corps, but to adapt to
the various challenges that this experience entails. For those of you who don’t
know Deborah Schultz she is without a doubt one of the people I admire most in
this world. Not only was she able to put herself though her undergraduate
studies as a history major becoming the first member of my family to do so, but
she continued to further her education by earning not one but 2 masters degrees
on full fellowships from 2 very prominent universities. The drive to do
something that no one in her family had ever done before laid a crucial foundation
for my own education as an undergraduate. She constantly encouraged me to study
what I enjoyed, get involved in as many things as I wanted to, and was always there
to relish in my successes and consol me in my during my challenges. If it
weren’t for her I would have never been able to do what I am doing now, and
although I wasn’t home during this past Mother’s Day to make breakfast or take
her out to eat you can bet that she was on my mind throughout the day. So
considering I wrote this yesterday on Paraguayan Mother’s Day I will contend
that this entry was posted only a day late. I love you Mom and I am sure we
will talk soon!
As
for everything else that is going on I currently feel very busy with everything
that is happening. Slowly, and by slowly I mean snail slow, people in the
community are starting to become familiar with my presence. I notice more
people calling my name out every time I leave the house, and have interacted
with several new families thanks to my relationship with their children during
my lessons at the school. Presently, I have started working on the garden
project that has to date included a class on nutrition and how eating different
vegetables benefits our health in different ways, and another concerning
organic fertilizer and ecosystems. My goal for this week is to dig seed beds at
the school and finally plant the vegetables, but I was informed that this week
is exam week, so we will have to see how all that goes. I am feeling cautiously
optimistic about the garden. I notice that the teachers take pictures of me
doing lessons or when I do any work that is related to the garden. I get the
impression that the documentation of my work with the garden is going to be
sent to some sort of government entity to justify that the money invested in
the school was properly used for the garden program and not for other things,
but I have no way of confirming that. The reason I have not felt comfortable
about planting the garden yet is mainly because we don’t have a consistent
source of water that flow to where the garden is located. In the months leading
up to the project I was constantly preaching the need to put the garden where
there was a water source. That did not quite happen the way I hoped. What did
happen was the purchase of piping that will flow to a faucet inside the fenced
off garden area. The problem is that the faucet hasn’t been put in yet meaning
the kids will have to carry a bucket of water around a building to the garden
in order to water it. Carry a large bucket of water is extremely unpleasant and
quite heavy especially if you are a 4th grader. I personally feel
that if I were a kid in school and the teacher asked me to carry buckets of
water every day multiple times over a 50 meter distance that I would quickly
lose interest in the garden pretty quickly. Hopefully, that problem will be
resolved sooner rather than later, but I still have to keep reminding myself
that patience is always a key when working with the schools.
Tajy |
No sir, I completely concur. Your 2,500 trees makes a humongous difference for you, me, and everyone else on this Earth thats breathing. You've made the air cleaner, thank you. Seriously, awesome job.
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Tree Pruning Bronx